What would you do?

[joelle]

I wouldn't necessarily want my bf to do anything..I feel that I can take care of myself and there's no point muddying the waters or him acting all macho and getting violent.

Of course, if it got really bad and he witnessed some of it, I could understand him doing something about it.

[Hadez]

i dont exactly see too many girls stopping it.

[James R.]

Fuck a bitch. If you're catchin feelings about something as trivial as a girl you need to reevaluate your status as a man and grow a dick. If you really wife a girl up then you shouldn't have a problem with her even talkin to any new meat and if you do then you need to boot that bitch and hit her wit the curve like an MLB pitcher.

The only time I can see any guy havin an issue wit a guy talkin to his girl is if he was sitting with his girl when the asshole came over tryna be on. In that case he should shove a size [insert shoe size] into his ass and introduce his dick to a blender.

[allan]

Fuck a bitch. If you're catchin feelings about something as trivial as a girl you need to reevaluate your status as a man and grow a dick. If you really wife a girl up then you shouldn't have a problem with her even talkin to any new meat and if you do then you need to boot that bitch and hit her wit the curve like an MLB pitcher.

The only time I can see any guy havin an issue wit a guy talkin to his girl is if he was sitting with his girl when the asshole came over tryna be on. In that case he should shove a size [insert shoe size] into his ass and introduce his dick to a blender.

Despite how much I appreciate the ghetto input, I am white, mostly swedish, & it's like talking klingon to a Midwesterner.

However, yea, feelings aren't the point really, it has to do with an absolute.
The absolute being, is she mine or not. I'm too loyal to leave her.

Anyway, I am sure she is mine I just give an attitude sometimes when I hear shit.. Man I know if some guy said to your girl hey you wanna fuck?

You'd of knocked him out.

[James R.]

In response to your comment I'll talk as "white" as I possibly can.

If a male approached someone whom I held close to me and asked if she would like to engage in sexual intercourse I actually would not "knock him the fuck out" because that's foolish and childish. If she's my significant other then there would be no point when I would be willing to put myself in harms way because of something as stupid as another guy expressing his sexual attraction to her. Maybe I'm too arrogant to think anyone is worth it, or maybe I just have enough common sense to realize that there's nothing to worry about. And if you're so confident in her being yours and she's not expressing a similar interest in them then what is the point in getting a negative attitude? It's like a compliment if you stop and think about. She's obviously attractive and she's loyal to you. Be happy

[allan]

In response to your comment I'll talk as "white" as I possibly can.

If a male approached someone whom I held close to me and asked if she would like to engage in sexual intercourse I actually would not "knock him the fuck out" because that's foolish and childish. If she's my significant other then there would be no point when I would be willing to put myself in harms way because of something as stupid as another guy expressing his sexual attraction to her. Maybe I'm too arrogant to think anyone is worth it, or maybe I just have enough common sense to realize that there's nothing to worry about. And if you're so confident in her being yours and she's not expressing a similar interest in them then what is the point in getting a negative attitude? It's like a compliment if you stop and think about. She's obviously attractive and she's loyal to you. Be happy

Foolish? I agree.
I'd have to say it would depend on how they did it.
Anyway, yea, thanks for your advice.

I'm alright with your thoughts about self preservation, it's not something that a person should change, but some people, mean a lot to me.

It's just how I am.

Yea, well, if you mean be happy with her, (which you don't)
I am, of course
& really, if I were unhappy I doubt I'd be posting here now