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Re: Video exposes street harassment in New York

Postby yoda you can call me » Nov 1st, '14, 18:49

^That was my initial reaction. It would of bugged me if I had one of those not so flattering slackys that you sometimes get in drink.. Im not saying it should be accepted ofcourse
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Re: Video exposes street harassment in New York

Postby yoda you can call me » Nov 1st, '14, 22:21

Hesky wrote:
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Yoda wrote:Kind of how i felt when I had my dick cupped by various women in nightclubs :wub:

That's sick


It's also quite different to what I experiencedImageSomething like that isn't likely to happen to me, though.

Bloody slags. Where do you live, Yoda?


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Re: Video exposes street harassment in New York

Postby SliK » Nov 1st, '14, 23:17

Men and women are wired so fucking differently, it's crazy.

I've struck up conversations with strangers, or made it obvious that I'm checking someone out. I mean why is a nightclub different to the street? They're both public places. You can't say men cannot speak to women. I mean, why shouldn't a approach an attractive woman, in all honesty?

She might not appreciate my advances? That's fine, tell me that and I'll go for on of the other 3.5 Billion women on planet earth.

I'm not apologizing for (or stopping) that kind of behavior. It has been reciprocated plenty of times, too.

I must admit, the advances became more welcome the more attractive I became. I also started receiving more uninvited attention from women. I'm not kidding, like sitting at lunch with my dad and these girls are leaning out the car window waving and trying to get my attention. Also while I'm at work trying to do my job, I serve hundreds of women a night and often I'll receive a comment or something. What does that tell you?
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Re: Video exposes street harassment in New York

Postby DetroitSkills » Nov 2nd, '14, 04:22

smug bitch, wouldnt even say hi back to these ppl.
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Re: Video exposes street harassment in New York

Postby DetroitSkills » Nov 2nd, '14, 04:26

http://youtu.be/pAUMkljvn7E?t=16m25s
this guy has some good points m8
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Re: Video exposes street harassment in New York

Postby yoda you can call me » Nov 2nd, '14, 10:56

Hesky wrote:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=75aX9mlipiY

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Re: Video exposes street harassment in New York

Postby DetroitSkills » Nov 2nd, '14, 10:57

Calandre wrote:
DetroitSkills wrote:http://youtu.be/pAUMkljvn7E?t=16m25s
this guy has some good points m8

No, he doesn't
It's not about saying "hi" to people on the street or flirting with women.
He has the right to be a "creepy douche"? WTF?

Not a single one of you have said how you would react if a guy walks next to you for five minutes.
If you're so thick you cannot see the difference ask the women around you.

so one guy walking next to her means that the whole video is harrassment? a guy saying hello, a guy complimenting? thats all harrassment correct? in fucking new york city down town..? pls
And yes refering to the goofs on reddit saying that guys are scum etc. ur goddam right he has the RIGHT to be a creepy douche. U dont have the RIGHT to comfort. And dont forget. GIRLS DO THIS SHIT TOO look at the video heskman posted. As for a guy walking next to me 5 mins. IN NEW YORK!? I couldnt give any less of a fuck. Its new york. And one guy was a creepy douche. Maybe 2 or three. Id like to see the whole 10 hour video instead lf this chopped up horseshit of a few instances... LIRLLLLL :laughing:
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Re: Video exposes street harassment in New York

Postby Atone » Nov 2nd, '14, 11:26

I'll put it like this, girls grow up whining, complaining, cutting their wrists saying "i'm not pretty enough wahhhhh nobody loves me wahhh my daddy's brother tocuhed me wahhhh" and then a nice stranger offers them candy and OH MY GOD HE'S TRYING TO RAPE ME CALL THE COPS!....


no but in all seriousness, females complain all the time that they don't feel pretty, but a guy compliments them and suddenly "all he wants is sex" and when it's a girl complimenting a guy it's "he has money she's a gold digger"

no, fucktards, how about accepting that maybe, people are actually nice for no reason sometimes, without expecting things, how do i know this?

i live in Florida, in a fucked up city full of druggies and weirdo's, i've had plenty of random people do good things for me.

when my mom left, the next day i walked 15 miles to fill out job apps, by the way, Florida is notoriously HOT AS FUCKING SHIT, 15 miles in the sun here is a fucking massacre, well, in this time, i had 2 different total strangers help me, the 1st one, gave me a bottle of water, the 2nd one, about, an hour later, saw me walking, and stopped at a gas station, bought a hot dog and 2 gatorades for me, stopped, and gave me a ride the rest of the way home, neither one of them asked me to help them with anything.

other times? i went for a walk one day, again, the Florida heat is fucked, i think i may have walked about, 8 miles, idk, on my way back, i was out of money, and was feeling the effects of the sun, at one point i gave up, sat on the sidewalk in some shade, some lady drove by and and saw me sit down, turned around and offered me a ride, i told her i was fine, but i guess my face was red as fuck and i didn't look to good, so she was persistant in offering me a ride, not twice, but 3 times she offeredm the 3rd time i got up and got in the car.

now, switch shoes a moment, a guy see's a girl in the same situation, on the verge of passing out in the hot sun, offers a ride, suddenly the girl thinks all the guy wants is sex?

YES, i know there are some fucked up John Wayne Gacy types out there, but not everybody you meet is a psychotic serial killer trying to rape you, somebody offers you a compliment, accept it, why do people gotta shed so much negativity in the world? why can't people just attemopt to bring upon a positive attitude? be peaceful? loving? stop trying to turn kindness into battles.
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Re: Video exposes street harassment in New York

Postby DetroitSkills » Nov 2nd, '14, 11:48

lol @ serious, this is a fuckin joke :laughing:
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Re: Video exposes street harassment in New York

Postby Guess_Who » Nov 2nd, '14, 11:56

SliK wrote:Men and women are wired so fucking differently, it's crazy.

I've struck up conversations with strangers, or made it obvious that I'm checking someone out. I mean why is a nightclub different to the street? They're both public places. You can't say men cannot speak to women. I mean, why shouldn't a approach an attractive woman, in all honesty?

She might not appreciate my advances? That's fine, tell me that and I'll go for on of the other 3.5 Billion women on planet earth.

I'm not apologizing for (or stopping) that kind of behavior. It has been reciprocated plenty of times, too.

I must admit, the advances became more welcome the more attractive I became. I also started receiving more uninvited attention from women. I'm not kidding, like sitting at lunch with my dad and these girls are leaning out the car window waving and trying to get my attention. Also while I'm at work trying to do my job, I serve hundreds of women a night and often I'll receive a comment or something. What does that tell you?


You are getting things wrong. We are not complaining about a guy who approaches nicely in the street (even though I personally wouldn't do it). One guy, invited me to a drink recently, he flirted and he was nice, I said that I have a bf and that was it. He was attractive , if I was free I would probably say yes. He didn't annoy me or I thought he was harassing me. (and obv if you meet someone in the street you are going to pay more attention to the looks, what else can you know about that person? this answer to your last question. )

We are complaining in general because of those guys who grab your ass, tell you something sexual or even chase you in the street. And yes all these things happens. And it's annoying as hell.
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Re: Video exposes street harassment in New York

Postby DetroitSkills » Nov 2nd, '14, 11:59

Guess_Who wrote:
SliK wrote:Men and women are wired so fucking differently, it's crazy.

I've struck up conversations with strangers, or made it obvious that I'm checking someone out. I mean why is a nightclub different to the street? They're both public places. You can't say men cannot speak to women. I mean, why shouldn't a approach an attractive woman, in all honesty?

She might not appreciate my advances? That's fine, tell me that and I'll go for on of the other 3.5 Billion women on planet earth.

I'm not apologizing for (or stopping) that kind of behavior. It has been reciprocated plenty of times, too.

I must admit, the advances became more welcome the more attractive I became. I also started receiving more uninvited attention from women. I'm not kidding, like sitting at lunch with my dad and these girls are leaning out the car window waving and trying to get my attention. Also while I'm at work trying to do my job, I serve hundreds of women a night and often I'll receive a comment or something. What does that tell you?



We are complaining in general because of those guys who grab your ass, tell you something sexual or even chase you in the street. And yes all these things happens. And it's annoying as hell.

ok but how many times does this happen in this video, and if youre not refering to the video then why is it even part of the OP, or the thread in general?
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Re: Video exposes street harassment in New York

Postby DetroitSkills » Nov 2nd, '14, 12:10

Calandre wrote:
DetroitSkills wrote: and if youre not refering to the video then why is it even part of the OP, or the thread in general?

To illustrate a point?

what exactly is the point? thats the question, we get it some ppl are gross weirdos (gender neutral) so what?? pointLESS thread tbh :laughing:
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Re: Video exposes street harassment in New York

Postby Guess_Who » Nov 2nd, '14, 12:13

DetroitSkills wrote:
Guess_Who wrote:
SliK wrote:Men and women are wired so fucking differently, it's crazy.

I've struck up conversations with strangers, or made it obvious that I'm checking someone out. I mean why is a nightclub different to the street? They're both public places. You can't say men cannot speak to women. I mean, why shouldn't a approach an attractive woman, in all honesty?

She might not appreciate my advances? That's fine, tell me that and I'll go for on of the other 3.5 Billion women on planet earth.

I'm not apologizing for (or stopping) that kind of behavior. It has been reciprocated plenty of times, too.

I must admit, the advances became more welcome the more attractive I became. I also started receiving more uninvited attention from women. I'm not kidding, like sitting at lunch with my dad and these girls are leaning out the car window waving and trying to get my attention. Also while I'm at work trying to do my job, I serve hundreds of women a night and often I'll receive a comment or something. What does that tell you?



We are complaining in general because of those guys who grab your ass, tell you something sexual or even chase you in the street. And yes all these things happens. And it's annoying as hell.

ok but how many times does this happen in this video, and if youre not refering to the video then why is it even part of the OP, or the thread in general?


The video is part of this thread, we are discussing the street harassment. And if you want me to comment on the video , noone was disgusting with her , or grabed her ass or told her something sexual, but it's annoying as hell when you just go walking in the streets and lots of guys react that way, do you think she is enjoying those comments?

Me and my friends talked about this many times, I have male friends who are great looking and they can go walking to any place and noone will act that way with them, I literally avoid going to certain places alone. It is annoying.

Check 0.56 in the video with the guy chasing her. Do you think that's normal? she doesn't know that guy at all, that kind of thing scare.
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Re: Video exposes street harassment in New York

Postby DetroitSkills » Nov 2nd, '14, 12:20

Guess_Who wrote:
DetroitSkills wrote:ok but how many times does this happen in this video, and if youre not refering to the video then why is it even part of the OP, or the thread in general?


The video is part of this thread, we are discussing the street harassment. And if you want me to comment on the video , noone was disgusting with her , or grabed her ass or told her something sexual, but it's annoying as hell when you just go walking in the streets and lots of guys react that way, do you think she is enjoying those comments?

Me and my friends talked about this many times, I have male friends who are great looking and they can go walking to any place and noone will act that way with them, I literally avoid going to certain places alone. It is annoying.

Check 0.56 in the video with the guy chasing her. Do you think that's normal? she doesn't know that guy at all, that kind of thing scare.

do i think she enjoys which comments? the hellos? or the compliments? kinda confused on which ur refering to tbh.
as for the guy chasing her yup weirdo, is it normal? no is it wrong MAYBE, but its not against the law either, its not any form of assault. girls do this stuff too, a girl chased down the guy in heskys video care to explain that one? this shit happens its human nature... guys look at girls girls look at guys, there are pervert girls just like guys.. its alot more equal than you all think, you just tend to vocalize it more because u know as soon as you do that the whole feminist army will create a fuckin riot, thats the truth.
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Re: Video exposes street harassment in New York

Postby DetroitSkills » Nov 2nd, '14, 12:25

Calandre wrote:
DetroitSkills wrote:what exactly is the point? thats the question, we get it some ppl are gross weirdos (gender neutral) so what?? pointLESS thread tbh :laughing:


The point is that many women get harassed on the street on a daily basis anywhere around the world. And that shouldn't be seen as "normal".

And btw - you open countless of pointless threads and we live with them.
This one is the Serious Debate part of the forum. If you think you're not able to engage in a constructive conversation in this thread you should keep talking about squirrels in Backstage.

this isnt a serious debate however, its a feminist implying that this happens 24/7 when in reality it was a chopped up video of a 10 hour long video in NEW YORK lol, nobody said harrassment is NORMAL, i did however imply that the compliments and the hellos were normal, never once said that the freaks were normal
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