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One Night Stands. Good or Bad?

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One Night Stands. Good or Bad?

Postby Tornado » Oct 11th, '07, 20:13

I was thinking to myself about One Night Stand, and if they're really that bad. Loads of people say its bad, but when i ask them why, they say its not normal.
Like if you meet a girl in a club, take her home, have sex and both of you go your seperate ways, is it really that bad if she dont get pregnant. Although i think people are too self -conscious of their perception of other people, they also got to make a intelligence choice, which could possibly be life changing. As long as you know what your doing i think its ok, but some see me as sick for my views

any opinions or views? anyone been in that posistion or has experience?
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Re: One Night Stands. Good or Bad?

Postby Sophie » Oct 11th, '07, 21:17

sex is meant to be a thing you do in a relationship. one night stand just seems slutty to me on both male & female sides, idk. :n:
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Re: One Night Stands. Good or Bad?

Postby C-Game » Oct 11th, '07, 21:18

it depends...
ill say its good for da guy and bad for da gal :p

as for me never bein in a one night stand...
and not keen also.. coz i dont think ill be able to stick out wit some random person..

da bitch may have STD for all i know.. :unsure:
and NO condoms aint gonna solve everythin..... :zipped:
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Re: One Night Stands. Good or Bad?

Postby Sophie » Oct 11th, '07, 21:20

C-Game wrote:it depends...
ill say its good for da guy and bad for da gal :p


-_-
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Re: One Night Stands. Good or Bad?

Postby C-Game » Oct 11th, '07, 21:26

Sophie wrote:
C-Game wrote:it depends...
ill say its good for da guy and bad for da gal :p


-_-


lol...
sorry if it didnt come out ryt..

but u know wat im sayin..

a guy talks abt hvin sex wit a random STD free gal.. its kool for him ( if STD gonna get a swollen penis )

if a gal is known for hvin sex wit random guys.. SLUT.. simple as dat
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Re: One Night Stands. Good or Bad?

Postby Sophie » Oct 11th, '07, 21:33

C-Game wrote:lol...
sorry if it didnt come out ryt..

but u know wat im sayin..

a guy talks abt hvin sex wit a random STD free gal.. its kool for him ( if STD gonna get a swollen penis )

if a gal is known for hvin sex wit random guys.. SLUT.. simple as dat


exactly. hence the -_-

it's stupid. the guys a slut as much as the girl, both having sex with random people, but the guy gets praised by his mates n the girl doesn't? pathetic. :y:
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Re: One Night Stands. Good or Bad?

Postby $0 R3@L » Oct 11th, '07, 21:39

sex shoudlnt be seen as an act of love more of an act of fun effection.People give sex toooo much power and it should really just be seen as a expression of effection and lust for the other counterpart.

Making sex this HUGE love thing is like having sex with a seven ton medaliion strapped to your penis/tits.
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Re: One Night Stands. Good or Bad?

Postby Sophie » Oct 11th, '07, 21:43

$0 R3@L wrote:sex shoudlnt be seen as an act of love more of an act of fun effection.People give sex toooo much power and it should really just be seen as a expression of effection and lust for the other counterpart.

Making sex this HUGE love thing is like having sex with a seven ton medaliion strapped to your penis/tits.


i'm not saying you should only have sex if you're in love or w/e, just at least in a relationship & not with some random person who you'll never see again.
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Re: One Night Stands. Good or Bad?

Postby $0 R3@L » Oct 11th, '07, 21:48

life is about enjoying yaself.In the spore of the moment,especially when drunk, rational thinking goes straight out the window.Yer i wouldnt have had sex with someone id only known for a night but in the spur of the excitment,enjoyment and free-flowing acohol it turns out different.

Life is about having fun and enjoying yourself,not living to the golden rules people THINK you should abide by.

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Re: One Night Stands. Good or Bad?

Postby ,-,'-{Bar}-',-, » Oct 11th, '07, 22:22

there good most the time.


only bad when you been drunk and someone else has to tell you you had a one night stand, then he shows you a pic of the chick....and lets just leave it at that
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Re: One Night Stands. Good or Bad?

Postby sinemm » Oct 12th, '07, 18:46

it just should be with some1 who deserves it
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Re: One Night Stands. Good or Bad?

Postby $0 R3@L » Oct 15th, '07, 19:21

had one night stand with my mates sister on saturday :S lol

it was gr8 and had fucking ace time but now all me mates keep joking and poking fun bout it lol

annoying but i guess i deserve it.Btw my mate wasnt botherd by the fact id slept with his sister,we're close.However im starting to regret the whole thing now because my face is like > -_-
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Re: One Night Stands. Good or Bad?

Postby rlxhustlr » Oct 16th, '07, 00:46

are you Circumcised? If yes its ok and if no i feel sorry for you! hahahahaha! jk that has nothing to do with a one night stand...but back on the topic no i never had a one night stand but have dated someone for only a month and it was just all about sex and then we broke things off cause it was just out of control....we are still cool today...
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Re: One Night Stands. Good or Bad?

Postby Robbie G » Oct 18th, '07, 03:55

$0 R3@L wrote:had one night stand with my mates sister on saturday :S lol

it was gr8 and had fucking ace time but now all me mates keep joking and poking fun bout it lol

annoying but i guess i deserve it.Btw my mate wasnt botherd by the fact id slept with his sister,we're close.However im starting to regret the whole thing now because my face is like > -_-


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Re: One Night Stands. Good or Bad?

Postby shady4life! » Oct 18th, '07, 14:28

As long as you know what your doing i think its ok


:laughing: :laughing: :laughing: hahahahaaaaa yeah right as long as u know wat ur doin! Thats wat they all say before somethin bad happens. How can u know wat ur doin if u just met someone in one night? How do u know they dont got aids? How do u know they arent married? How do u know if they r really wearin a condum? How do u know if they arent theivs who will sneak away and steal ur wallet? Its not right. Sex is not somethin u shud just be doin to anybody u meet....thats just fucked dont do it at all to people u dont know that is last thing u cud do :shakehead: :n: .

Infact its kinda similar to prostitution just that there is no money invovled.
Meet someone u dont know fuck and go away, their nearly the same thing.
If u dont like the way i act then blow me, i ride with the real peeps who know me.
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