Appropriate Age To be Sexualy Active..?

[,-,'-{Bar}-',-,]

when do you thing is an appropriate age.


i found myself thinking this the other night, i know both guys and girls who have been since 13, i myself have been since 14. i feel if you are smart about it then thats fine the age dont matter but then i think of my little cousin, who turns 14 in a month and stays with me alot and she was chattin away with a guy and she was laughing told me to check the screen and here's a guy asking for sex..now i know its a joke and she wouldnt do it coz he asked, shes smarter than that but it got me thinking that if she did i think id be pissed off coz i feel shes to young even though i myself was at that age..so its contradicting and i have no le-way whatsoever.


so i feel myself either not knowing what i think or just always have the contradictive view on it.

[Tash8]

i understand you man and it's all point of view... when we were 12, we thought we knew sex and shit but parents are like wtf he's only 12... same wtih 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20... every age older people are thinking that's way way too young.

I feel like it's fine any time but anything less than 14 is fucked up because my sisters 13 and that's fucked up.

[DelinQuent]

also been active since age 14 and I too look at 14 as way too young.

[Emadyville]

Yeah i lost it right after I turned 15, a friend of mine from back home is like a little brother and he lost it when he was 15 too, and when I think about it age wise I think that's way too young. I think, not even from an age standpoint, but when you graduate high school is the time it should be starting. Although as a guy I would never have said no I'm waiting til then so idk.

[Robbie G]

Anything under 16 is wrong to me. I guess the fact that I'm 16 is a factor though.

Or basically if your in high school, middle school is too young.

[Kez]

Whenever they want

It makes no difference what we say the appropriate age is, they'll do it when they want.

[Arabian Shady]

Whenever they want

It makes no difference what we say the appropriate age is, they'll do it when they want.

yeah, blame it on dem hormones...oh wait the 80's is ova, i guess its booze and porn nowdays,lol

[Angevilish]

18 I guess but that's general. After all there are some individual differences that we can't control.

[yoshi]

and here we go again.

there was this thread in Backstage some time ago, turned out to be a big debate about sex and responsibility. i pretty much stated there my opinion, but i can do it again.
i think it's somewhere around 18. maybe because in most countries, also in mine, it's like the 'borderline' between childhood and being of age. i'm not saying you become an adult, but at this point you have some experience and make up your mind about the world and people. also, as i stated there, i consider sex as a part of relationship, not this childish one, where you go to the cinema @ 6 pm and hold hands, but more of a grown-up relationship, where it's more about support and trust.

i don't think kids @ 14 or 15 are responsible enough to have sex (Brenda's got a baby, right?), that's why we got so many underaged pregnant girls, sending letters to the dumb teenage magazines and being like "oh, i had sex with this guy 2 months ago and haven't had period since then. is this possible that i am pregnant?" - no dumb bitch, the Period Fairy came and put a spell on you.

[Darkblade44431]

XD@the period fairy
hm....i'm 15..i don't think i'd have sex now if i could, just don't want to. Maybe 16 or 17, (i will have it with the bessst girl everr when i can see her when i'm 18, or earlier if i can get there ). But like yeh, if she can come down here next summer, nah, we're not gonna have it. But i really don't think it matters, just that you shouldn't get a young girl pregnant, cuz her body might not be able to handle it and the baby might be all fucked up. And also, gotta get checked for STD's first! But, though it's nice, RLY NICE , you don't have to fuck her in the pussy, if u don't she won't get pregnant, SIMPLE AS THAT! but u could still have ur girl take pills or put on a condom, i just don't like the fact that it's not always for sure she won't get pregnant. :/

i'm out!

[Robbie G]

and here we go again.

there was this thread in Backstage some time ago, turned out to be a big debate about sex and responsibility. i pretty much stated there my opinion, but i can do it again.
i think it's somewhere around 18. maybe because in most countries, also in mine, it's like the 'borderline' between childhood and being of age. i'm not saying you become an adult, but at this point you have some experience and make up your mind about the world and people. also, as i stated there, i consider sex as a part of relationship, not this childish one, where you go to the cinema @ 6 pm and hold hands, but more of a grown-up relationship, where it's more about support and trust.

i don't think kids @ 14 or 15 are responsible enough to have sex (Brenda's got a baby, right?), that's why we got so many underaged pregnant girls, sending letters to the dumb teenage magazines and being like "oh, i had sex with this guy 2 months ago and haven't had period since then. is this possible that i am pregnant?" - no dumb bitch, the Period Fairy came and put a spell on you.

Truth

[,-,'-{Bar}-',-,]

hm....i'm 15..i don't think i'd have sex now if i could, just don't want to. Maybe 16 or 17, (i will have it with the bessst girl everr when i can see her when i'm 18, or earlier if i can get there ). But like yeh, if she can come down here next summer, nah, we're not gonna have

no offence im not a close minded 17 year old like HAVE SEX YO FAG! but that just sounds..i dunno weird to me, you wouldnt have sex..are you a man, do you have balls ? but on the real have you been in the sitution to have it ? coz if you'd really be offered it and sayed no then its just weird i think expirementing when young is normal, as long as your safe about it. but i mean "you could but dont want to" why ? you have hormones your...a person, you like pleasure ? you should bust a nut just make sure you wearing a helmet you get me ? unless ofcourse your respecting a girls wishes then i completely agree with ya

and here we go again.

there was this thread in Backstage some time ago, turned out to be a big debate about sex and responsibility. i pretty much stated there my opinion, but i can do it again.
i think it's somewhere around 18. maybe because in most countries, also in mine, it's like the 'borderline' between childhood and being of age. i'm not saying you become an adult, but at this point you have some experience and make up your mind about the world and people. also, as i stated there, i consider sex as a part of relationship, not this childish one, where you go to the cinema @ 6 pm and hold hands, but more of a grown-up relationship, where it's more about support and trust.

i don't think kids @ 14 or 15 are responsible enough to have sex (Brenda's got a baby, right?), that's why we got so many underaged pregnant girls, sending letters to the dumb teenage magazines and being like "oh, i had sex with this guy 2 months ago and haven't had period since then. is this possible that i am pregnant?" - no dumb bitch, the Period Fairy came and put a spell on you.

see this is wear my head isnt right (no pun intended), i completely agree but i didnt stand by it and still dont (since i aint 18 till december) and even though i think what you says right it wont stop me and i will have more "one night stands" if you will. cultures are obviously all different, but i live in a place were if your 15 and a virgin its like..wow held out for long, thats if your a girl, if your a guy its like...WOW YOU FUCKING SHITE BAG ARE YOU SCARED ITLL BITE YA DICK OFF ???

but my overall feeling is if your safe about it then i dont care the agem even though id still go nuts if my little sister or cousin got fucked at 13, but if my little brother got it at 13 id give him a high five < thats wrong but i know thats what id do.

[yoshi]

see this is wear my head isnt right (no pun intended), i completely agree but i didnt stand by it and still dont (since i aint 18 till december) and even though i think what you says right it wont stop me and i will have more "one night stands" if you will. cultures are obviously all different, but i live in a place were if your 15 and a virgin its like..wow held out for long, thats if your a girl, if your a guy its like...WOW YOU FUCKING SHITE BAG ARE YOU SCARED ITLL BITE YA DICK OFF ???

we're all hypocrites Bar, no need to worries.
this is just a theory, cause i know people younger than 18 who are more grown-up than those in their 30's..
i know the reality. and i'm not telling anyone what to do, honestly - you can have one night stands 7 days per week, 365 days per year, it ain't my business^^ but i just think that being 15 and being all like "ooh, i just NEED to have sex!" isn't right. being an adult isn't that much fun, for real.

WOW YOU FUCKING SHITE BAG ARE YOU SCARED ITLL BITE YA DICK OFF ???

yeh, and that's like the gayest thing ever to say.

our cultures aren't that much different, Bar.

[Tash8]

Europeans tend to have sex earlier than most Americans, and I've noticed this by discussions like this and mainly because in the U.S. they do their best to keep sex shit hidden.

[ilovemeghan]

i actually lost my virginity at the age i am now, 18.
i don't care what people say tbh, coz i've had chances but turned them all down, waiting for the right person, who i found, and lost my viginity to, and that just made it feel so much better, than randomly fucking sum1 u dnt give a shit about.
my gf is 16. but to be honest, age doesnt matter to me, as long as the two people know what they're doing and truly want to do it.
my ex offered me sex on a plate, but i turned it down, as i was already plannin on breaking up with her, but for the next few days i thought, damnit, why didn't i just fuck her, then i wudnt be a virgin.., but when i DID lose my virginity, it makes me realised that if i lost it to my ex, i would've regretted it. i'm so happy i waited. and i think that's what people should do.
i've only had sex with one girl and i'm proud of it
peace