Ever wondered?

by **Mr. Cookie** » Aug 31st, '06, 05:51

Ever wondered what your significant other does online when you aren't around? Would they flirt with other people or even cheat if given the right opportunity? Mine did... Wanna find out just how faithful they would be in the face of temptation? http://chat-detectives.com

I got that shit on yahoo....what the fuck is it?

by **Curious** » Aug 31st, '06, 11:02

Hmmm, prolly just something that'll cheat ppl out of their money...

I honestly wouldn't care if my bf flirted online, that's pretty innocent - well, depends on how far the flirt goes of course, i mean, if they start having cybersex then it's a different story... but it's ok to flirt with other ppl as long as it doesn't go too far

by **rhiannon** » Aug 31st, '06, 11:10

how can u cheay online...i mean its online :confusion:

by **Curious** » Aug 31st, '06, 11:20

rhiannon wrote:how can u cheay online...i mean its online

well i'd consider cybersex (like phone sex, just online) cheating

by **rhiannon** » Aug 31st, '06, 11:23

i wudnt think its really cheatin tho....coz like its like not real. :confusion:

by **Curious** » Aug 31st, '06, 11:39

rhiannon wrote:i wudnt think its really cheatin tho....coz like its like not real.

Well, no matter whether they're physically together i wouldn't want my bf to tell another girl what he'd wanna do to her intimately or want him to masturbate while chatting with another woman online - i mean, i know that ppl think about having sex with other ppl than their partner but when u have cybersex u've sort of acted on those thoughts n i do consider that cheating

by **rhiannon** » Aug 31st, '06, 11:41

Curious wrote:
rhiannon wrote:i wudnt think its really cheatin tho....coz like its like not real.

Well, no matter whether they're physically together i wouldn't want my bf to tell another girl what he'd wanna do to her intimately or want him to masturbate while chatting with another woman online - i mean, i know that ppl think about having sex with other ppl than their partner but when u have cybersex u've sort of acted on those thoughts n i do consider that cheating

oh yeah i getcha point i wudnt want my bf doin that either....i never thought bout it like that but yeah i guess it is...coz he's thinkin bout doin that 2 sum1 else an i guess if they've done it on here an not felt guilty they wudnt bout doin it 4 real

by **Curious** » Aug 31st, '06, 12:02

rhiannon wrote:oh yeah i getcha point i wudnt want my bf doin that either....i never thought bout it like that but yeah i guess it is...coz he's thinkin bout doin that 2 sum1 else an i guess if they've done it on here an not felt guilty they wudnt bout doin it 4 real

i dunno, i think there's a big step between cheating online n in real life, especially since - as u say - online is not "4 real" so ppl prolly don't feel as guilty about it as they would in real life but it's just that acting on sexual thoughts about other women (or guys for that matter) is to overstep certain boundaries of intimacy that u wouldn't want ur bf to have with other women, if that makes any sense?

by **rhiannon** » Aug 31st, '06, 12:06

yeah...but it takes a certain type of person to have those thoughts about some other girl in the first place dont u think?
i mean if u were truly in love an stuff you wouldnt needa any1 else....so there'd be no need to chat unless they're that kinda person.i dont think the boudry is that big coz u gotta have the thoughts 2 be able to cyper sex an shit...all they'd have to do is meet the person an u neevr kno seein as they cheated online...im not sure if any of that made sence lmao

by **Curious** » Aug 31st, '06, 12:17

rhiannon wrote:yeah...but it takes a certain type of person to have those thoughts about some other girl in the first place dont u think?
i mean if u were truly in love an stuff you wouldnt needa any1 else....so there'd be no need to chat unless they're that kinda person.i dont think the boudry is that big coz u gotta have the thoughts 2 be able to cyper sex an shit...all they'd have to do is meet the person an u neevr kno seein as they cheated online...im not sure if any of that made sence lmao

yeah, makes sense lol - i don't think it's just certain types of ppl who fantasize about sex with other ppl than their partner though, i think we all do (oops, :whistle:

) - well, to a certain extent, that is. I mean, it's not like i'm oblivious to the qualities of other guys even if i'm head over heels in love with someone

But it's one thing to fantasize and another to act, n if u start having sex with ppl online u've acted so... about the need for chatting with other ppl i do that even if i have a bf, but it's when the chatting goes further than the "normal" talking n joking around that it becomes an issue

by **rhiannon** » Aug 31st, '06, 12:22

yeah i guess ur right....every1 does think bout other ppl wen they with other ppl i getcha...lol

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