Family - Can you trust them?

[Robbie G]

I've grown up with my cousins so they're some of my best friends. But I agree that being blood related doesn't automatically make them trustworthy/worth your time.

[VenomBlackViper]

Nope I hate my fucking family, I try to spend as little time with them as possible & when I start getting paid full time i'm getting the fuck outta here & forgetting they ever exist. Bunch of religious, judgmental, cheap, snobby faggots. Literally all of my best memories have happened when I was away from my family, if that ain't a sign I don't know what is.

[Xray]

Nope I hate my fucking family, I try to spend as little time with them as possible & when I start getting paid full time i'm getting the fuck outta here & forgetting they ever exist. Bunch of religious, judgmental, cheap, snobby faggots. Literally all of my best memories have happened when I was away from my family, if that ain't a sign I don't know what is.

For fucking real.

[classthe_king]

I can't wait till I get out of college and can live where ever I want. My family will never see me again. I'm thinkin about movin to England or some ish like that.

[Devil'sAdvocate]

Nope I hate my fucking family, I try to spend as little time with them as possible & when I start getting paid full time i'm getting the fuck outta here & forgetting they ever exist. Bunch of religious, judgmental, cheap, snobby faggots. Literally all of my best memories have happened when I was away from my family, if that ain't a sign I don't know what is.

i feel the same most of the time.

[Satire]

If you tell your mom or dad you love them, or kiss them, or say you ever missed them.. Matter of fact, if you ever tell your parents about your day, you're instantly a fucking faggot and you shouldn't chill with your friends anymore, because you are a snitch and you can't be trusted.

[Master Chief]

Yes, if you can't trust your family then who can you? My condolences to those who hate their family haha.

[Xray]

If you tell your mom or dad you love them, or kiss them, or say you ever missed them.. Matter of fact, if you ever tell your parents about your day, you're instantly a fucking faggot and you shouldn't chill with your friends anymore, because you are a snitch and you can't be trusted.

You remembered.

[dead prez]

Wow a lot of people hater their families, lol. Yeah I guess, even though my brother's an asshole who sold my Xbox without asking me and did a bunch of other douchebag stunts, I don't harbor any ill feelings towards him. Same for my mom really, only real family member that I'm not really eager to see is my Father, but I'm not getting into that.

If you're talking about distant relatives than yeah, I don't trust them, though that's only normal. I have all these cousins who I never met and don't plan on meeting, not to mention I have like literally no blood relatives where I live.

[VenomBlackViper]

I'd say the reason I hate my family is because they try forcing their beliefs on you, like you're either following the exact same shit they are or you're not a part of them. Motherfuckers can't accept you being any different from them, which is fine because their a bunch of faggots anyways however the parental system has me stuck with them so now I have to constantly lie (I lie more than I tell the truth whenever i'm talking to them). The parental system needs to be fixed so you don't have to kiss your families ass just to have a fucking place to live & some food on the damn table. It's like a gay kid living with homophobic parents minus all the faggot shit, the crying & the eventual suicide.

[christalgurl]

I don't hate my family by any means. My mom is incredible. Of course, she's not perfect, but I do trust her. My dad, eh. I guess we're just not really compatible. Sometimes two people just can't get along. He's made some mistakes that have hurt me, but I still love him. He is my dad. We have our good times for sure, but other times, not so much. My grandma is so sweet. She's very ditzy, which can be annoying, but it's also a part of her charm, I guess. On my dad's side, I don't really see anyone that often. They seem too uptight to me, but I don't really know them honestly. My uncle is pretty cool. He's always going all over the world, so I don't see him much, but when I do, we can definitely talk and have a pretty good time together. My sister is great. We do fight, but I love her so much. We are so different though in so many ways, but I guess we're also alike in a good many ways.

Family is complex for sure. Out of my family, I'd say I "trust" my mom and sister. Besides that, nope.

[Tornado]

Ah this is my thread...

The stupid saying "blood is thicker than water" is bullshit. In life, best thing is to keep a small circle of people you care and trust about and keep living, cause otherwise some so-called friends and family'll take shit for granted.

I was gonna write my teenagehood but shit's too long so to put in context.
My mother is a two-faced, vain and self absorbed bitch and control freak who is a half parent, at the best of times, and i'm being kind, considering she made my teenage life shit. She belittles, leeches and stressed my dad to the point where he talks to me about leaving her. I wouldn't like my mum if she was a stranger, but since she gave birth to me, i'm supposed to overlook everything? Fuck that. If she weren't wasting money on self-help senimars, lone vacations or failing with her business, she might've seen that i wasn't a bad teenager. Bitch always has to talk first and be right about everything, always assuming shit about me. Whilst she fucked around, my dad's doing both roles of the family with his job included so by the time she gets home, she has her dinner and shouts at me for for bullshit.

Only certain people in my family i truly care for, my grandma was one. Through the fallouts, she took me into her home, fed me and generally gave me peace from life at that point. By then, my mum's bitch level went up a notch, saying shit to the family in order to get me back home under her rule, trying to pressure other people just to get me back. I came back once, big mistake. Anyway, through the shit, my gran helped me whilst i was going college, but the relationship deteriorated and she died through a heart attack cause of the stress level. If that weren't bad enough, from some family members, i was getting all the blame with lots of false claims of what i did. Add to that, my uncle who lived with my nan (mama's boy to the extreme, he's in his 40s) decides after that to be a dickhead now. Comes to a head and i'm given 3 months to find a new home. Thank fuck i started a job soon and had college to divert my attention, cause no other family would take me in. Even my mum was saying different shit to me about coming home, like "don't bother" one week and "we miss you" the next.

When i finally got a place and i had my 1st night there i realised in general, fuck family, only keep the ones you trust and care within your circle. My dad, Grandma and my brother (middle one) are the only close family i really keep.