But why are you so cruel ? In life, sometimes you should have to look at yourself before judging others. Most of the time, your judgments are based on acts, or behaviour shared only on what is virtual, because at the end, none of you personally know him. You judge what you notice in others. You unconsciously assess the value of anyone, the value of the person you think you know everything about his whole life. Finally, you are mistaken. These things are so small that you can not afford to carry any judgment on someone.
Who are you ? Ah, no, first... who are we to judge the worth of a person? Each is unique, each story is it also.
Although, we are all basing on the same things, the path on which we come and we operate will make us what we are. Each form his character, values, and personality, based on emotions and events that are presented to us. Each of us, has his own way of seeing events, and everyone is free to see and live things his own way, everything around us. Actions and behaviors are just a reflection of what we have experienced in our lives.
So to judge an action, we need to know the actual source, which often is very far back... If we take the trouble to know people better, we would see that often in the guise it is much more!