TRex, I know what you're saying, but that's like saying, 'don't look forward or anticipate good things' as well. If you think bad things might happen, you might look for them. If you think good things are going to happen, and they don't, you might be very upset.
It's human nature, neither is better or worse.
We've all just got to be honest with ourselves when D Day is here. Whatever the material, they'll be some in denial of anything bad, whilst some will pick and put down on a certain motive.
We all just have to enjoy a discussion before the storm.