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Re: Virginity

Postby remy3x » Jan 11th, '11, 22:10

Slimm wrote:I was reading some of the posts thinking 'what a pussy' and then it turned out to be a girl and I got insta-respect for them.

Double standards ftw.

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Re: Virginity

Postby Slimm » Jan 11th, '11, 22:51

remy3x wrote:
Slimm wrote:I was reading some of the posts thinking 'what a pussy' and then it turned out to be a girl and I got insta-respect for them.

Double standards ftw.

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Re: Virginity

Postby missangie » Jan 13th, '11, 22:09

I'm a virgin and I'm 18, but I'm not really religious and I'm not choosing to stay one until marriage. I just haven't met the right guy yet. The double standard really annoys me, though a lot of people have that mentality. I don't know if it's just because it's cooler for guys to boast about sex or whatever, but there's nothing wrong with a guy that's still virgin. My friend said he lost his virginity at 16 and he thought he was losing it late. :shakehead: Nowadays it seems like you're expected to lose your virginity in high school. But then again, when you have those MTV reality shows like "16 and Pregnant," I'm not really surprised.
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Re: Virginity

Postby ShadyNarkoticz » Feb 1st, '11, 23:15

You gotta test drive the car before you buy it. :smoking:
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Re: Virginity

Postby rinnie1207 » Feb 2nd, '11, 07:13

BabyBLue91 wrote:What does it mean to you?
Religious or not- do you believe you should wait until you get married, or wait until a certain age?

Also, do you believe there is a double standard when it comes to males & females?

I'm 20 and a virgin, not because I'm waiting till marriage or because of religious views. Just because I haven't found the right guy yet. I don't want to have sex just to have sex, or just to get it over with.

I think, as long as you're ready and mature enough, its your choice.

I do think there is a double standard. If guys have sex, they are praised. When a girl has sex, not that people don't respect her, but they look at her differently. Of course, not everyone thinks like this. But I'm in college and I'm just going off of what its like at my school and what I've seen/experienced.
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Re: Virginity

Postby SMKshady » Feb 4th, '11, 04:31

BabyBLue91 wrote:What does it mean to you?
Religious or not- do you believe you should wait until you get married, or wait until a certain age?

Also, do you believe there is a double standard when it comes to males & females?


I think you should wait until a certain age or at-least until you're ready.
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Re: Virginity

Postby xxTrigger1989xx » Feb 4th, '11, 21:20

I think you should wait until a certain age. Plus, I don't think you should have sex unless you're in love with them or at least really like them, one night stands are :shakehead:

Marriage has nothing to do with "making love". You can be married, but not be in love, so in that case, sex becomes pointless except for personal pleasure or for conquest

There IS a double standard, but it's hilariously ironic. Guys are considered heroes for fucking many women, while girls are considered sluts for fucking many guys. But, it is 10000 times easier for a girl to get laid than a guy. Guys aren't as picking as girls are, and girls only don't care about sex if they're not attracted to the guy. But the second she sees a "hot" guy, she'd probably fuck him in a heartbeat, regardless of whether he's a good guy. Whereas guys will practically fuck any girl, but NOT all guys only care about sex, and that's a common misconception about us
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Re: Virginity

Postby Brennan » Feb 28th, '11, 22:07

Nope to waiting,start participating.
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Re: Virginity

Postby macdaddy019967 » Mar 2nd, '11, 06:56

Do i really need to respond to this thread lmao.
If your a guy and your still a virgin at the age 18, I feel sorry for you.
If your a virgin by choice its cool but if you seek pussy and can't get any i'm willing to help you guys out with some advice because no one should die a virgin (Kblock). :smoking:
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Re: Virginity

Postby xnoxiousx » Mar 3rd, '11, 03:30

macdaddy019967 wrote:Do i really need to respond to this thread lmao.
If your a guy and your still a virgin at the age 18, I feel sorry for you.
If your a virgin by choice its cool but if you seek pussy and can't get any i'm willing to help you guys out with some advice because no one should die a virgin (Kblock). :smoking:

Im 18 and still virgin :(

Seriously though it depends on person. I had opportunity for sex but turned it down im waiting for right person. Not marriage but someone i know ill be with forever.
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Re: Virginity

Postby VenomBlackViper » Mar 3rd, '11, 06:00

xnoxiousx wrote:
macdaddy019967 wrote:Do i really need to respond to this thread lmao.
If your a guy and your still a virgin at the age 18, I feel sorry for you.
If your a virgin by choice its cool but if you seek pussy and can't get any i'm willing to help you guys out with some advice because no one should die a virgin (Kblock). :smoking:

Im 18 and still virgin :(

Seriously though it depends on person. I had opportunity for sex but turned it down im waiting for right person. Not marriage but someone i know ill be with forever.

Dawg go get some pussy, that "forever" dream is just a load of shit. That's why i'm never getting married, it's all fun at first and then you start to get annoyed of the person & you eventually break up. If you get married then you're fucked, cheating will end up costing you money every month instead of just a slap to the face. Point is nothings forever, if you try being with one bitch your whole life you'll either end up cheating & getting in some whole big ass drama & slowing your life down drastically or you'll be unhappy the rest of your life.
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Re: Virginity

Postby macdaddy019967 » Mar 3rd, '11, 08:18

VenomBlackViper wrote:
xnoxiousx wrote:
macdaddy019967 wrote:Do i really need to respond to this thread lmao.
If your a guy and your still a virgin at the age 18, I feel sorry for you.
If your a virgin by choice its cool but if you seek pussy and can't get any i'm willing to help you guys out with some advice because no one should die a virgin (Kblock). :smoking:

Im 18 and still virgin :(

Seriously though it depends on person. I had opportunity for sex but turned it down im waiting for right person. Not marriage but someone i know ill be with forever.

Dawg go get some pussy, that "forever" dream is just a load of shit. That's why i'm never getting married, it's all fun at first and then you start to get annoyed of the person & you eventually break up. If you get married then you're fucked, cheating will end up costing you money every month instead of just a slap to the face. Point is nothings forever, if you try being with one bitch your whole life you'll either end up cheating & getting in some whole big ass drama & slowing your life down drastically or you'll be unhappy the rest of your life.

very well put. :y:
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Re: Virginity

Postby xnoxiousx » Mar 3rd, '11, 13:14

VenomBlackViper wrote:
xnoxiousx wrote:
macdaddy019967 wrote:Do i really need to respond to this thread lmao.
If your a guy and your still a virgin at the age 18, I feel sorry for you.
If your a virgin by choice its cool but if you seek pussy and can't get any i'm willing to help you guys out with some advice because no one should die a virgin (Kblock). :smoking:

Im 18 and still virgin :(

Seriously though it depends on person. I had opportunity for sex but turned it down im waiting for right person. Not marriage but someone i know ill be with forever.

Dawg go get some pussy, that "forever" dream is just a load of shit. That's why i'm never getting married, it's all fun at first and then you start to get annoyed of the person & you eventually break up. If you get married then you're fucked, cheating will end up costing you money every month instead of just a slap to the face. Point is nothings forever, if you try being with one bitch your whole life you'll either end up cheating & getting in some whole big ass drama & slowing your life down drastically or you'll be unhappy the rest of your life.

You act like no one has happy married. I know lots of people happily married. Sure they have disagreements but thats how life goes no one will always think same.
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Re: Virginity

Postby Alia » Mar 3rd, '11, 14:12

^Personally, I find the idea of not finding someone that you love and trust enough to spend the rest of your life with quite sad. Maybe I'm just lucky, because I'm surrounded by examples of marriages that have withstood the test of time

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Re: Virginity

Postby macdaddy019967 » Mar 3rd, '11, 18:15

Alia wrote:^Personally, I find the idea of not finding someone that you love and trust enough to spend the rest of your life with quite sad. Maybe I'm just lucky, because I'm surrounded by examples of marriages that have withstood the test of time

Marriage is filled with compromises, but if it's worth the prize, it's worth the fight

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