Why don't parents beat their children no more?

[AspirinE]

Great post Cart man ... i fully agree with u..

back in the comunist days in my country kids spent less time doing worthless shit, sport was free, with all equipment and it was popular, kids were hockey crazed and shit, nowadays they eat mcdonalds on the regular and dont do sports, as well as dont respect their parents..
Wtf is our world gone be in 30 years i cant dare to imagine...
If u get stastistics, kids that are stricktly raised make it big in life.

and no it doesnt cause violence, bloody video games, no education, too much spare time - do

[Mr. Cookie]

id give em a good smack if he was disrespectfull or arogant..

Guys do keep in mind im speaking within reasons...

not wen u abouse ur child till he scared of u.. but an occasion teaching ..

well, I thought you meant like abousin' the kids...a smack ain't bad if the kid do somethin' wrong..so there I agree with you...if a parent abouse the kid, that's somethin' else...then the kid may be violent, but not if the kid gets a smack...

[MuNxMuN]

i don't support it at all cause when my little brother does something bad my dad hits him and now my brother is scared of my dad cause he doesn't want to get hit

[Prodeo]

A beating when they're being disrespectfull isn't bad
Nowadays kids are little monsters (some) and sometimes i just wanna beat the crap out them. Starting shit for nothing, i remember we woul'd be kinda scared of older kids, but they are just taking advantage of the fact you don't beat younger children and they ain't getting punished for it (some)

[Fi.J.]

I don't think parents should beat their children..it wouldn't be a good example n there are better way to teach children how to behave..

[Curious]

I don't think parents should beat their children..it wouldn't be a good example n there are better way to teach children how to behave..

I agree with you Faby, parents shouldn't beat their children. First of all it's wrong to hit anyone, and I think it's really disgusting when adults hit children who are so much smaller than them and have no way of defending themselves. Beating your kids is just a sign of feeling impotent and helpless, it's a sign that you aren't capable of communicating with your kids and explain to them why it's wrong to do what they just did. Violence has never been an ideal method of conflict solving.
when you beat your kids you teach them that this is normal behaviour when somebody does something you don't like. And yeah, I do think that beatings traumatise children who grow up to fear their parents instead of learning to respect them.
that being said there's a very large difference between beating your children and slap them in their behind once and then never again if they've done something really bad - in the latter case I doubt anyone would be traumatised by it, but they'll remember it for the rest of their lives because it was an extraordinary event, they'll learn from it, and they'll probably never repeat the action that led to the spanking.

[Curious]

Yeah but how else are they gonna learn?

you sit down with them and tell them that what they did wasn't okay and why it wasn't okay - for instance i have a nephew who bit another child in the ear and i asked him how he'd like somebody to bite his ear, and of course he wouldn't like that...
what you teach kids when you hit them is that it's ok to hit someone, and i really don't think that's a valuable lesson to teach them

[MuNxMuN]

parents can always ground their children

[Ivy]

My father would never raise his hand to me, but he knew if he raised his voice that would do the trick. But for kids that go bizurk in stores and throw shit, or scream, they deserve a little tap on the rear end....don't overdue it though!!!!!!!!!!

[MuNxMuN]

My father would never raise his hand to me, but he knew if he raised his voice that would do the trick. But for kids that go bizurk in stores and throw shit, or scream, they deserve a little tap on the rear end....don't overdue it though!!!!!!!!!!

yea i agree with you

[AspirinE]

Yeah but how else are they gonna learn?

you sit down with them and tell them that what they did wasn't okay and why it wasn't okay - for instance i have a nephew who bit another child in the ear and i asked him how he'd like somebody to bite his ear, and of course he wouldn't like that...
what you teach kids when you hit them is that it's ok to hit someone, and i really don't think that's a valuable lesson to teach them

Not all kids can learn that way, sometimes kids are too selfcentered..

[misa]

I don't think parents should beat their children..it wouldn't be a good example n there are better way to teach children how to behave..

I agree with you Faby, parents shouldn't beat their children. First of all it's wrong to hit anyone, and I think it's really disgusting when adults hit children who are so much smaller than them and have no way of defending themselves. Beating your kids is just a sign of feeling impotent and helpless, it's a sign that you aren't capable of communicating with your kids and explain to them why it's wrong to do what they just did. Violence has never been an ideal method of conflict solving.
when you beat your kids you teach them that this is normal behaviour when somebody does something you don't like. And yeah, I do think that beatings traumatise children who grow up to fear their parents instead of learning to respect them.

i agree on tht i still remember how my dad used tp beat me , it was hell , iwas one scared kid iwas afraid to do anythin cause of the fear that he wont like it n beat me , n not all the times i understood wat the hell did i do wrong n actually it did no good cause i ended hatin him for it , not havin any respect twards him & havin no relation with him , i wasnt even a bad kid like if my mum would tell me to not do sth i wont , just beatin ur kids is the most stupid thing u can do n the most harmful thing to their emotions

[Ivy]

My father would never raise his hand to me, but he knew if he raised his voice that would do the trick. But for kids that go bizurk in stores and throw shit, or scream, they deserve a little tap on the rear end....don't overdue it though!!!!!!!!!!

yea i agree with you

Yeah, I mean a little pat every now and then is fine, but to smack them so hard they fall down or leave a welt, well then I'll do the same to them, that type of shit just pisses me off....

[Fi.J.]

I don't think parents should beat their children..it wouldn't be a good example n there are better way to teach children how to behave..

I agree with you Faby, parents shouldn't beat their children. First of all it's wrong to hit anyone, and I think it's really disgusting when adults hit children who are so much smaller than them and have no way of defending themselves. Beating your kids is just a sign of feeling impotent and helpless, it's a sign that you aren't capable of communicating with your kids and explain to them why it's wrong to do what they just did. Violence has never been an ideal method of conflict solving.
when you beat your kids you teach them that this is normal behaviour when somebody does something you don't like. And yeah, I do think that beatings traumatise children who grow up to fear their parents instead of learning to respect them.

i agree on tht i still remember how my dad used tp beat me , it was hell , iwas one scared kid iwas afraid to do anythin cause of the fear that he wont like it n beat me , n not all the times i understood wat the hell did i do wrong n actually it did no good cause i ended hatin him for it , not havin any respect twards him & havin no relation with him , i wasnt even a bad kid like if my mum would tell me to not do sth i wont , just beatin ur kids is the most stupid thing u can do n the most harmful thing to their emotions

exaclty..this is what can happen when parents beat children..I agree,misa!n I'm sorry for what happened to u!

[AspirinE]

http://www.thatvideosite.com/view/1515.html


watch this and tell me how do u teach this kid manners... talking to him ?

obviously he hasnt he thinks he can do anything, and get away with it..