I think it'd be hard either way....I mean...a lot of people would feel jealous, hate, or envy...I'm mean, not many people get to say goodbye to their loved ones before there dead...I mean, if I lost someone close to me and I didn't get to say goodbye or that I didn't mean any of those horrible things I said, and then I meet someone who ended their terminally illed loved one's life and they got to say goodbye and reconcile....then I'd feel jealous and hate, but then I'd envy them because they were able to say goodbye and feel the relief that I wouldn't be able too...it goes both ways....

I still say it's sad no matter what...just thinking about loosing someone close to me brings tears to my eyes...
*Think Happy Thoughts*
Me - Oh God, are my family members okay???
*picks up phone*
Me - Mom? Are you okay???
Mom - Yeah, wh....
*click*
Me - Dad? You Okay???
Dad - Sure I'm fine, wh....
*click*
*Shouts throughout the house*
Me - Wendy Lou, Sunny, come here....
*Dog enters room*
Me - Sunny????
*Cat eventually emerges in room*
Me - Phew, okay you can go now...
*animals just sit and stare at me...*
Me - GO LAY DOWN!!!!!!!
*Thinks, what about my grandparents???*
Me - Where'd I lay my phone???
*Finds phone dials grandparents...*
Me - Pick up, Pick up, PICK UP.............
*Answering machine tone...*
*click*
Me - Okay their fine, their just unable to come to the phone right now, should I have left a message with my name and number..???
*Begins to think of happy thoughts*
Me - Dear God, Make Me A Bird So I Can Fly Far Far Away...Dear God, Make Me A Bird So I Can Fly Far Far Away....
Saying right above ^^^^ is from Forest Gump, I take no credit whats so ever for it....