buffalo bill wrote:katha wrote:But there's a point to be made that his jokes about gays, women, violence, the disabled etc. are problematic because it perpetuates the norms of a homophobic, sexist, generally intolerant and brutal society.
And that it teaches real homophobics and sexists to play the "I'm just playing around, don't be so sensitive" card, maybe? I agree that they should either ask the right questions or stop bringing the shit up at all.
He does get off the hook too easily when the subject is brought up, I do think. It would never happen if his "victims" had been Blacks or Jews.
OTOH I do agree with him that parents are responsible for their children and everyone is responsible for their own behaviour. It's a fine line, I guess. Read a phrase somewhere else on the internet: "Misaimed fandom". Basically people projecting their own ideas on artists and not getting that they may be saying something different. Hell, Em wrote a song about it: Stan. How much can he really help that? Or should he be making clearer statements? Would anybody even listen?
I also think that much of the outrage is fake. And ironically he gets backlash because he in many ways actually
doesn't glorify violence, sexism and homophobia since he constructs his presentation of it as either uncomfortably realistic (mostly the violence and anger) or as so crass or so self-ironic that you have difficulty shrugging it off. It's not the casual "no homo", "that's so gay" that's around in movies and yes, countless other rap songs (and Katy Perry!). No one gives a shit about that because it doesn't stop them from enjoying that stuff as mindless entertainment whereas Eminem always forces you to notice what you're actually listening to.
And since he tries not to be a liar he can't say: "I'm sorry, I repent and will never do that again." He won't (and shouldn't) denounce his own songs, he obviously will write outrageous stuff again because...duh. Many people do insist that such jokes shouldn't be made at all (Anderson Cooper among them), so that explanation only preaches to the choir and won't change the opinions of those who think art shouldn't be allowed to do that. He can only say that he doesn't have a problem with gay people. But, again, people don't even get what he's doing: See Cooper citing Criminal. So yeah, that particular conversation probably won't ever get anywhere useful.