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My only check whats your opinion

Postby Just Silver » Feb 21st, '11, 00:47

Well as some of you know on hear i have Aspergers Syndrome (its a social disorder)
...... Anyway i get a check for about 700 dollars but since my crackhead mother is payee i only get about 250 of that 700

If I were to change payees i would be able to but its my Mothers only source of money
Id have that money to save or use as i saw fit

But if i do change payees my mother wouldnt be able to have a place

What should i do
I can only work a max of 20 hours and no one will hire me anyway maybe walmart

so should i have my Mother try and take care of herself with no money

or should i suffer from giving away "rent" to live at my own place and have no clean clothes :angry:
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Re: My only check whats your opinion

Postby Chet Starr » Feb 21st, '11, 00:55

Tell your mom she needs to learn to get on her own two feet in a certain amount of time and then cut her off

Then you won't feel like a dick when you start taking your whole check

My Gf's grandfather has the same condition and he is a professor, so don't be so bleak about the job situation, live your life and aim for the chet Starrs!
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Re: My only check whats your opinion

Postby Just Silver » Feb 21st, '11, 00:58

Chet Starr wrote:Tell your mom she needs to learn to get on her own two feet in a certain amount of time and then cut her off

Then you won't feel like a dick when you start taking your whole check

My Gf's grandfather has the same condition and he is a professor, so don't be so bleak about the job situation, live your life and aim for the chet Starrs!

lol thats the thing though Ive been supporting her since i was about 2 years old because Survivors benefits and now this at 19 years old idk if i should even feel bad if i were to leave

she would have NO source if income though and shes way too lazy to try to get a job
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Re: My only check whats your opinion

Postby embm » Feb 21st, '11, 01:38

awww sweetie u can get a job ;) :console:
a lot of my students have tat but they r very successful in scol
it dsnt mean tat u cant do anythin
if u try & belev im sure u wud find a gr8 job O:)
gd luck :flower:

abt ur mom tats a sticky situation bt u gota move out & be a grown up so after u get a job tat pays well give her som $$$ & get out ;)
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Re: My only check whats your opinion

Postby RainMan44 » Feb 21st, '11, 01:39

This is very hard. Personally, I wouldn't have the heart to leave my mother with no money. What I would do is invite her to live with me and share the money? I guess. I really don't know man, seems like a really fucked up situation. I wish the best for you, it's your decision. Good luck man :y:
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Re: My only check whats your opinion

Postby Chet Starr » Feb 21st, '11, 02:48

Leave then man, she needs to learn to be a adult. Don't let her drag your life down with hers
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