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[Lil Pimp Tell 'Em]

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[Lil Pimp Tell 'Em]

yeah

[ThomasAguanis]

i have a penis

[yoshi]

lmao that's cool lol

[ThomasAguanis]

my girlfriend and I just had some crazy conversations. she wetnt away last week for 10 days and came back a couple days ago. during this time i told her of a time i looked at her phone and saw stuff just never said anything..thinking she wouldnt care...well she did....

then i think we have it straightened out and we're ok together which it seemedto be..but..i saw her yesturday and right before she left we tried to talk about it and she got in a bad mood..but in the car ride home i htought i made her feel better.

today i talk to my sister and she asks how stuff is between us..like if she still likes me and if i still like her..i say yes and then start feeling weird. so i call my girlfriend and tell her how im feeling and that it doesnt feel right between us for some reason and i dont know why. she asks if i want to break up with her and i say no..do you...she says no...so we get to talking more and get to a "break" and she says if we take one it would mean we could do whatever with whoever since we're not together but she doubts that would happen IF we took a break. i say it seems like she wants to do stuff with someone besides me and she doesnt relally answer but says no..so i tell her imma take a shower and call her back to see what she says then..

i call back. we get back to the break subject. she says theres someone she wants to do stuff with other than me and i eventually find out its a guy she works with. when i heard that it seriously felt like someone stabbed me in the heart..no lie..i was hurt. so im just speechless...then ask what??/ are you serious? you said you were. then she says she has feelings for him but they're not as strong as the ones she has for me...and felt it since she got back from vacation even though the kid she works with is on vacation...all over the fucking text messages i saw on her phone.

then she says she only ment some of it and didnt mean the part about doing stuff with that fucker she works with. and she only said it becasue she didnt know what she was feeling. then says she olnly loves me and we get into that(not gonna post those details)
so we're stil ltogether and love each other...she says she has to go to sleep..while me on the other hand probally own't sleep untill i see her again. i dont understand how she could sleep after saying that stuff and knowing she hurt me so much. im just really confused now. oh and she's having her period this week..so that may be causing some of this too. i wouldnt know since im a guy but i figured i'd say that since it may change someones opinion on this.
god i really do love this girl more than anyhting and she says the same but i dont know what to feel right now and it sucks.

and i dont care who reads that and if you want to respond make it a serious comment cause right now im suprised i didnt loose it yet.

[Shadyluva]

:(
my girlfriend and I just had some crazy conversations. she wetnt away last week for 10 days and came back a couple days ago. during this time i told her of a time i looked at her phone and saw stuff just never said anything..thinking she wouldnt care...well she did....

then i think we have it straightened out and we're ok together which it seemedto be..but..i saw her yesturday and right before she left we tried to talk about it and she got in a bad mood..but in the car ride home i htought i made her feel better.

today i talk to my sister and she asks how stuff is between us..like if she still likes me and if i still like her..i say yes and then start feeling weird. so i call my girlfriend and tell her how im feeling and that it doesnt feel right between us for some reason and i dont know why. she asks if i want to break up with her and i say no..do you...she says no...so we get to talking more and get to a "break" and she says if we take one it would mean we could do whatever with whoever since we're not together but she doubts that would happen IF we took a break. i say it seems like she wants to do stuff with someone besides me and she doesnt relally answer but says no..so i tell her imma take a shower and call her back to see what she says then..

i call back. we get back to the break subject. she says theres someone she wants to do stuff with other than me and i eventually find out its a guy she works with. when i heard that it seriously felt like someone stabbed me in the heart..no lie..i was hurt. so im just speechless...then ask what??/ are you serious? you said you were. then she says she has feelings for him but they're not as strong as the ones she has for me...and felt it since she got back from vacation even though the kid she works with is on vacation...all over the fucking text messages i saw on her phone.

then she says she only ment some of it and didnt mean the part about doing stuff with that fucker she works with. and she only said it becasue she didnt know what she was feeling. then says she olnly loves me and we get into that(not gonna post those details)
so we're stil ltogether and love each other...she says she has to go to sleep..while me on the other hand probally own't sleep untill i see her again. i dont understand how she could sleep after saying that stuff and knowing she hurt me so much. im just really confused now. oh and she's having her period this week..so that may be causing some of this too. i wouldnt know since im a guy but i figured i'd say that since it may change someones opinion on this.
god i really do love this girl more than anyhting and she says the same but i dont know what to feel right now and it sucks.

and i dont care who reads that and if you want to respond make it a serious comment cause right now im suprised i didnt loose it yet.

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[ThomasAguanis]

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i really do love her. everything seems alright as is our rekationship..im just still like what the fuck happened?
i'll def think it through tonight. and hopefully she does too

i'm VERY VERY suspicious. i consider your girlfriend very sketchy! trust me, she wouldn't have said that stuff if it didn't have some truth behind it. i don't want to break you guys up or anything.. but you should try grilling her more on the topic and see how she changes or what she says.

my boyfriend and i can never sleep good after an argument... so we always make up. i can't believe she says she "loves" you.. and love is a strong word.. and then decides to go to sleep after she obviously breaks your heart

who knows what her and the guy at work are doing behind your back... or who knows what could happen? you and her could have one little argument and she could, in a rage, cheat on you.

i just wouldn't trust someone who would tell me all the things she told you..
girls usually think about stuff like breaking up for days.... it's not something you say just because you're confused...


i'd watch that guy at her workplace too


you're a good guy.

i honestly believe that she hasnt done anything with anyone else besides me.
i mean..well my biggest fear right now in life is loosing her over someone else..and i told her that before and made her understand that i'd never cheat on her. we even promised eachother we'd die before cheating on eachother. i know i actually ment it..and at the time i thought she did. and i would kick that guys ass but the prolem is..i dont know who he is or what he looks like. i def will bring it up 1st thing when i see her next which will be either tomorrow or saturday cause this shit is bothering me more than anything ever has.

thanks to both of you for reading/giving advice.

[ThomasAguanis]

Man...your story touched me, so i decided to make a serius answer, from the time that i know you on the net, your a very good guy, your charismatic, and charmfull, and you deserve better, i dont understand why she would even say that to you...its painfull, i know, iv been thru situations like this at least 4 times, it hurts, but theirs only one way to escape it, and thats comitment, iv learned if you want to stay with one girl, you have to keep stepping up in the relationship, do somthing roamntic, or spontainius you wouldnt usualy do, somthing crazy, or spuradic, to spark her back up, feelings dont go away that quickly, trust me, and think about it, best of luck to you bro

thanks man. means a lot. i dont know what to do that i havent before. and it is our 11 month anniversary next saturday (the 26th) so idk what to even do for her then either. and i will think about it tonight..and tomorrow too..well untill this is all settled.

[ThomasAguanis]

Tom I'm really sorry reading that . I'm not really that good at advice with these situations (obvious why) but, like Shadyluva said, give it some time so that you can both have a lil timeout and think it through. You and your girlfriend seem to be real close and have alot of love for eachother. Like ya meant for eachother or something . And like Maybe said....feelings don't go away so quickly. I'm sure you'll sort things out in the next couple of days . If I was in her position I'd feel kinda bad knowing that you're hurt by this. I don't know her, or her personality but I'm sure she feels that. And she definately knows since you told her how you felt.


Really hope you sort this out Tom, and I'm sure you will keep ya head up

thanks for that sarah. i saw her today so i think we cn settle it...(details later in post)

woah dude i honestly dont know what to say man but know how ya feeling .....get at me if you wanna talk ok.

thanks man. im here if you feel like talking. up to you

ok so heres an update. she called me while i was just about finishing work and she was on break. she asks how i feel and i say the same...now shes understandng what she did. so we say we need to see each other and she says that i should see her at work...but doubts i'll do it(works about 3-5 miles from where i do) so i get my friend sam who i work with to take me there and see her, her sisters, and parents(who dont know what happened last night) we get away from them and walk down the board walk talking about it. she apologies but im just still like what the fuck? then we eventually hug/kiss and she goes back to her booth. i stay there with her for a couple hours.

we talked everything out. she said she just wanted to kiss the guy since im her 1st boyfriend and she wanted to see what it would be like..and all she wanted to do was kiss..nothing else. she said she only felt it when she said it and now doesn't at all and regrets saying it. also said she'd tell me what they say to each other every day she sees him so i make sure he's not trying anything and neither is she(which noow i know she won't).

then i asked if i did anything wrong as a boyfriend..she said no..i didnt do anything wrong and that i was the best/greatest she could have. so i asked if theres anything she would change and she said it was only a little problem...reguarding as she put "her turn for pleasure time" but thats easily settled.

then we made promises to each other(not gonna say what but they're very serious) and i knew she ment what she said since i was staring in her eyes the whole time. everythings ok between us but it still feels weird a little bit..can't really describe it. i guess im just scared of somethings and of what could have happened or will happen(not so much what will happen though)
but im going to her house for dinner tonight and we'll sort everything out more and tomorrow she's comming here and we'll sort everything out even more and probally be back to ourselves. (i hope so)

and i talked to my sister again and she was just asking all these questions and i was just saying everythings ok..and asked her to stop asking questions..if theres anything between us we'll sort it out ourselves. she said shes "fucking annoying so get used to it" but now i know i can talk to her about it if i have to(which i probally never will even if i do have to)

[Homie_4_life]

ok i hate the fucking fact that i leave to go babysitting and my computer gets stupid viruse cause my brother was on and it took a week to get it fixed and know all the programs and all my pictures and all my music got wiped off of it nad know my friends are all asking me relationship advice and i am so fucking bored i could scream

[Evil_Deedz666]

I need to get sum shit of my chest...




































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[rhiannon]

owww man...i got pins an needles in my leg its makin me laugh but its annoyin!

[rhiannon]

lmao its gone hoorayy!but it wasnt funny lmao....i always get scared that my legs gonna explode or fall off or sumin

[rhiannon]

fell asleep?can legs do that?

[rhiannon]

lmao u dragged ur leg bhind u like....them ppl that do that?