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Postby MuNxMuN » Oct 18th, '06, 10:53

i so made made a topic similar to this a while ago :p


and yea i'd probably tell them probably by the age of 10 or something cause then they're old enough :happy:
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Postby MuNxMuN » Oct 18th, '06, 10:59

Sarah wrote::confusion: Really? I thought that was the "are you adopted" one :confusion:




..oh well :8)



that was one too :p but there was one that went like "if you were adopted would you ever want to know"


so it's pretty much the same except it's asking the other side :p
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Postby .Giorgo. » Oct 18th, '06, 11:14

I would tell it.. things like that always come to the light.
And how u feel if u parents don't tell it..
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Postby MuNxMuN » Oct 18th, '06, 11:14

Sarah wrote:Exactly....it's different :D


but it's somewhat the same :p
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Postby rhiannon » Oct 18th, '06, 16:19

.Giorgo. wrote:I would tell it.. things like that always come to the light.
And how u feel if u parents don't tell it..

it? lmao it's a human lmao

i wud tell them coz i kno i wud rather kno if i was adopted or not
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Postby sinemm » Oct 18th, '06, 17:23

telling them is better then letting them to find out later..cuz it would mean like umm u decieved them for whole this time..this would hurt them..i would tell i guess..idk..
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Postby stevethetruth » Oct 18th, '06, 17:30

well i was adopted and i was told ever since i was born so yeah i'd tell my kid he's adopted right when he or she can talk
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Postby sinemm » Oct 18th, '06, 17:50

steverocks88 wrote:well i was adopted and i was told ever since i was born so yeah i'd tell my kid he's adopted right when he or she can talk


thats good your parents told you the truth :)

stevethetruth lol :p :happy: :D
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Postby stevethetruth » Oct 18th, '06, 17:56

sinemm wrote:
steverocks88 wrote:well i was adopted and i was told ever since i was born so yeah i'd tell my kid he's adopted right when he or she can talk


thats good your parents told you the truth :)

stevethetruth lol :p :happy: :D


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Postby yoshi » Oct 18th, '06, 18:06

yeah, i think i'd told them they're adopted - that'd be better than finding out accidentally.. i'd just say i adopted him/her and say it doesn't matter, cause i love them anyway..
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Postby HAYZI » Oct 18th, '06, 18:20

its a very hard decision, u know u prolli should but when? how? etc. would the kid rather not know cos theyd feel more secure or not maybe if they find out when theyre an adult (or never at all) its less likely to affect them..... its a judgement call rele
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Postby Chino562 » Oct 18th, '06, 18:21

i'll tell em when they're ready or old enough
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Postby Shadyluva » Oct 18th, '06, 19:19

Ghost562 wrote:i'll tell em when they're ready or old enough


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Postby Kez » Oct 18th, '06, 21:22

I'd tell them; get it out of the way early.
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Postby Hunneh_Buns » Oct 18th, '06, 22:54

I'd tell them when they are young...like when they can talk and before they went to school. So they don't go 10 years thinking that i'm their real mom or something.
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