Affairs ( adultry )

[,-,'-{Bar}-',-,]

ok, so you came in for that debate but tis different i wanne debate a scenario

You are a man, and married to a female, you 2 have been married for 5 years and have 2 kids for talk sake, now after 5 years your wife starts having an affair with another Female...you find out about it, how do you react ?

and flip side for the girls, you husband has an affair with a another guy







personelly, i wouldnt care, ok so it means I cant satasfie her no more BUT id just keep a triangle releashonship, we stay together for the kids and she can see the chick wheneva she wants as long as i get kept up to date with Video's of it , also i get to join in on threesomes the ultimate life

[D@vid]

personelly, i wouldnt care, ok so it means I cant satasfie her no more BUT id just keep a triangle releashonship, we stay together for the kids and she can see the chick wheneva she wants as long as i get kept up to date with Video's of it , also i get to join in on threesomes the ultimate life

i wouldn't care as long as my hoe wouldn't become too attached to the other hoe. then its cheating for love, but if shes just cheating to get some pussy, then thats fine by me. plus theres a chance she'll let me join in on the fun

[Tash8]

well if that's happen that mean your turned her lez and that's like fucked up.

[$0 R3@L]

well if that's happen that mean your turned her lez and that's like fucked up.

lmao

[D@vid]

well if that's happen that mean your turned her lez and that's like fucked up.

not necessarily. could just mean she isn't happy with just the same thing, so she decided to try something she wanted to her whole life. the same shit happened to my friend that was going out with someone. she wasn't lesbian, she was just curious so she tried it. he never got to join in cuz it was only a time thing for her and that other girl

[$0 R3@L]

id shout out 'who wants to make a porno!'

[Curious]

i'm findin it a little difficult to get into that scenario since my man has absolutely no homo tendencies (i'm not gonna go into any details lol) but then again i actually think it'd be worse for me if he fucked someone his own sex than if he just fucked another woman - i mean, both would be the ultimate betrayal, but if he fucked another guy i'd feel like i never even knew him at all, like both he n i had been livin a lie n i'd never be able to forgive him for that

[hotcopper]

Bar brought up two important considerations in this scenario: kids and time investment.

If my man kept it discreet so that my children weren't hurt by it I'd be ok with it. That means that the other person couldn't have any stalker/obsessive tendencies and start creating problems.

Also, it depends on the motivation for the affair- if its just sexual curiosity that's fine, I could work through that; if it's emotional than we'd split up- I wouldn't compete with another woman in that case so I sure as hell wouldn't compete with a man!

Finally, if I've been involved with someone for 5 years I'm not going to walk away from it just because he had sex with a guy. If everything else is good, I'll hang in there unless it becomes emotional like I said earlier.

Practically, he better use protection and not bring any nasty STD home to me-that would require an asskicking.