Girls Getting Fat

[James R.]

Ok so I got this from Eminem making fun of Jessica Simpson. I knew she gained a bunch of weight and I wanted to see why. Well according to some people she said that when she's in love she doesn't bother staying in shape cuz she's happy and blah blah blah. My question is: Why?

I mean me personally, I never work out more than when I'm in a relationship. I wanna stay on top of my game as much as possible, ya know? Alls I'm sayin is that if someone can cheat on Halle Berry when she's in the best shape I've ever seen her in, someone will definitely cheat on a girl that's getting progressively more out of shape as the days pass.

It's just not my style. I wanna stay as fly as possible and I hope my girl would do the same. Girls need to listen to more Destiny's Child- Cater 2 U more often "...keep my body tight. Remain the same chick, you fell in love with..." inspirational words.

Discuss. Why do people (because guys get lazy too) drop off their game when they get a significant other?

[Solace]

Most people try to look attractive for others but when they've found someone that they believe won't leave them because they've gained weight they don't bother to try.

[James R.]

And that's fucking retarded. Logically I'd think "hey if this person got with me cuz i was a dime piece, I should probably not drop down to a 5 on good faith and laziness"

[Solace]

Society if fucking retarded and you know it

If I found my significant other I'd want to look better than when we had met, you know?

[James R.]

Yeah I'm the same exact way. Honestly when I don't have anyone I specifically want to impress it's waaaay harder for me to find the motivation to work out because there really isn't a reason to ya dig?

@ Sarah- I get that you should love someone for who they are, not what they look like, but I mean damn. Gaining 25 pounds is like gettin knocked up lol

[James R.]

Naw I feel you. I wouldn't get with someone just cuz they were sexy as hell, and I'm not talking about a little 10 poound weight gain or a pants/dress size. I mean like serious letting go. Like going from a 7/8/9 to a 12/13/14 you know what I mean? I mean if I'm putting in work to keep myself up for various reasons I'd expect my chick to do the same. But I see your point(s) scattered as they may be.

[imarun10]

The people that stop keeping up with their appearance in a relationship don't care about how they look. Eventually they would have fallen off. If you have the drive to look nice, that shouldn't stop just because you're in a relationship.

I mean I'm an athlete so I always keep up with my fitness, but I've seen some of my own friends fall off as soon as they get a boyfriend. A little weight gain isn't a big deal, but 15+ pounds is just a sign of laziness. Those kinds of people are destined to be fat in my opinion.

[Kez]

Wow, i'm sorry James, are women not allowed to gain weight in your world?

[James R.]

Wow, sorry Kez, don't see where I ever said that. I believe the question I posed was why do people let themselves go when they get significant others.

[Kez]

Wow, sorry Kez, don't see where I ever said that. I believe the question I posed was why do people let themselves go when they get significant others.

Because they like to think their significant others care more about them as people and less about whether they've got a few extra pounds jiggling around their stomach?

[James R.]

Well then there's your answer. Thanks for the contribution.

[JMG]

I'm not worried, I make sure my bitches eat right.

[DrRapid]

I'm not worried, I make sure my bitches eat right.

As long as I really like that girl I don't mind if she gets a bit fat. I gotta like her for what she is.

I think that when I'm in one I want to look even better and I know people don't mind as much cause their partner "loves" them but I think it's also about keeping healthy more than just the looks.