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How long 2 people should be together before marriage?

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How long 2 people should be together before marriage?

Postby Yah-hah » Jan 29th, '10, 23:14

I've heard alot of people say there is a certain amount of time 2 people should be together before they get married. I heard in Canada its like 6 months or something. I was just curious wat yall think.
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Re: How long 2 people should be together before marriage?

Postby Solace » Jan 29th, '10, 23:17

What do you mean? Like opinionated? 'Cause I'd say like a year and a half.
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Re: How long 2 people should be together before marriage?

Postby Yah-hah » Jan 29th, '10, 23:19

Yeah like your own opinion
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Re: How long 2 people should be together before marriage?

Postby Yah-hah » Jan 29th, '10, 23:31

Yeah me and my girlfriend have been together for about a year and a few months, and I plan on askin maybe around April or so. Its been a year of seeing eachother alot, last 6 months has been almost everyday from when we get out of school till she goes home to go to sleep lol. I have never felt this way about a girl before, never told another woman I loved her. I think that we are ready, we are definitly mature enough, I've had to grow up alot faster than I should have, and she has too.
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Your life is cool bro lol :y:


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Re: How long 2 people should be together before marriage?

Postby Edge » Jan 29th, '10, 23:57

when u both realize u dont wanna b with any1 else for the REST OF YOUR LIFE.... thats when... whether its after a day or after 10 years... so when u could honestly say that you wouldnt wanna b with ne1 else ever, than go for it
be the best you can be, and if thats not good enough for people... than fuck em
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Re: How long 2 people should be together before marriage?

Postby Spyder » Jan 30th, '10, 00:12

depends really...

that is all
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Re: How long 2 people should be together before marriage?

Postby mcZu » Jan 30th, '10, 00:14

When they're ready.
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Re: How long 2 people should be together before marriage?

Postby Spyder » Jan 30th, '10, 00:31

Adam Quinn wrote:I think marriage should be banned... that's kinda extreme.

I don't believe in marriage I think insecure people need it. It's for needy and diffident people. So never, people should never get married.


or because they love eachother... thats what i always thought :whistle:
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Re: How long 2 people should be together before marriage?

Postby Tash8 » Jan 30th, '10, 00:40

Yah-hah wrote:Yeah me and my girlfriend have been together for about a year and a few months, and I plan on askin maybe around April or so. Its been a year of seeing eachother alot, last 6 months has been almost everyday from when we get out of school till she goes home to go to sleep lol. I have never felt this way about a girl before, never told another woman I loved her. I think that we are ready, we are definitly mature enough, I've had to grow up alot faster than I should have, and she has too.


god damn, you're getting tied down when you're that young (how old are you?). SHIT i'm not getting married till i'm 28 even if i'm with a girl for like 5 years.
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Re: How long 2 people should be together before marriage?

Postby Yah-hah » Jan 30th, '10, 01:01

Yeah man I'm only 18. I just honestly cant see myself with anyone else, like I dont even want to be with someone different
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Re: How long 2 people should be together before marriage?

Postby Elision » Jan 30th, '10, 02:45

I don't think it's for us to decide. It's up to the couple. Every couple is different.
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Re: How long 2 people should be together before marriage?

Postby BLAHBLAHBLAH » Jan 30th, '10, 03:33

I think that every couple is different and the amount of time varies. But I really do think that people should live together before they do get married, but you learn about their natural mannerisms, that they may try to hide when you are on a formal date or whatever.
But sometimes marriage isn't always the best way for the couple. My grandma has lived with a guy she was dating for seven years and they never got married, but you could never tell. I think that marriage is a superficial way of telling someone you love them, and a way to get money back on taxes.
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Re: How long 2 people should be together before marriage?

Postby Sophie » Jan 30th, '10, 12:27

There shouldn't be a time limit, every couple is different, and it's whatever works for them :y:
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Re: How long 2 people should be together before marriage?

Postby Raquel » Jan 30th, '10, 15:22

My opinion? Whenever you think you are ready.
If you love her and she loves you, even if you have been going out for a short time.. why not?
But you have to be sure you love eachother

I know you were thinking about ask your gf to marry you. If you love her ,go ahead Yah hah :flower:
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Re: How long 2 people should be together before marriage?

Postby embm » Jan 30th, '10, 18:50

depends on how much luv/passion is in relationship
but @ least a yr or mybe mo
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